Reddit aita pool neighbor who dies on his way to the hospital due to cerebral hemorrhage. She was at the pool steps, stumbled in but didn't fall so only got half wet. AITA if I report my neighbor to management? Thanks everyone, I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Yeah my parents have an HOA and suffice to say in under 8 years people have sued the HOA, the HOA has sued people, hell my parents neighbors (who USED to be their friends) trespassed on my parents property (which isn't even on the same street as these people) and cut my parents bushes (reasons unknown) and lied about it (parents have it on outdoor cameras), so these Hi itchykneemy! I hope I spelled that correctly. I’ve lived here for two years and it’s been alright. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Congrats on the pool and the coming baby! As president of the HOA I get all the complaints. Organic produce isn’t cheap and theft is theft. NTA we had a neighbor that kept bothering us whenever we were outside. We've also had a concern for the security of the cleaning staff who come after hours. It’s a beautiful pool in the back that I had refinished the first year. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. AITA for not helping my neighbor with her kids after her husband left her Background info: My husband and I (late 20s M&F), have lived next to Jack and Jill for two years. Our neighbor left a note on our door saying they didn't want to see a bunch of naked people in our yard and asked us to cover it up. When I bought my first house I was aware (through a friend who lived on the street) that my next-door neighbor had a disabled adult daughter due to a car wreck who was in a wheelchair and had round the clock care. I have been in my house about five years now. I am usually a very private person. Next year, there's this stuff called mosquito pool dunk. Can you please give a schedule to the neighbors of when workers will have to block the I looked outside and saw my neighbor’s kids were on their trampoline, throwing fruit from their trees into my backyard and trying to make shots in my pool basketball net. OP may feel justified but it is unnecessarily hurtful. And yes, my family does skinny dip. Or check it out in the app stores TOPICS AITA for reporting my neighbors? Not the A-hole I've (26F) been living in this same apartment complex for about 5 years now. Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. Memes allowed, shitposts only on weekends. get lost so we can use your pool. Plus if you did take out the pool, his routine would be disturbed anyways, so, it’s a bit of a moot point. We keep for ourselves. Have friends over occasionally and we enjoyed having people over for food, drinks, and of course swimming pool parties now that the weather allows for it. Aita? Archived post. Throwaway because I know they are on reddit. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: The action I took is that I had the fence built, it might make me the asshole because the neighbor can’t access his fence I have a pool in my backyard. It got progressively worse, starting to smell like something rotting. *hey neighbor, my kid has a birthday party. By demanding a neighbor pay for the fence and therefore take control of the fence, they may also have accidentally created access rights allowing the neighbor to enter their property for fence maintenance. * <- entitled people. Or check it out in the app stores AITA for telling my neighbor no more? Not the A-hole We have a swimming pool and it's not a huge pool but it is underground. Owners and Management Companies are liable for sexual I felt disgusted. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. There's a dock on it, I upgraded it about 15 years ago so it's somewhat nice. Maybe a different neighbor jumped right to code enforcement instead of asking you what was up? Congratulations on the new baby! It's understandable you're tired. I’ve always been friendly with my neighbors, including “Karen” (mid-40s F) who moved in next door about Posted in r/OhNoConsequences by u/tommy2tone222 • 186 points and 15 comments Ever since then i've had to chase the kids away a couple more times and their parents are constantly sending me dirty looks whenever they see me, i've since posted a sign stating it's a My next-door neighbors have two young kids who noticed the pool and asked their parents if they could come over to swim. We have a son who’s six years old, and they have two kids who are a similar age, but a little bit older. I(29f) am friends with my neighbor. My neighbor got upset over a different situation today and while talking through it they brought up all these pool issues from the past, claiming it cost the neighborhood collectively thousands of dollars to clean up after the pool guys. She's very tall and very obese, she wants to dive in the pool and we lose a lot of water, she sits outside and Not great communication skills on the partof OP; and without boundaries the neighbor would just assume things were normal. Nor did I want my yard being used without permission in case someone got hurt. She would drive around the neighborhood, so weird. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1: I'm "causing drama" in the family because my sister wouldn't let my son swim in her pool, and I'm very upset over it and told her she's hurt her relationship with him Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. There is a 6-foot concrete block wall between our yards. If your neighbor does this again, report them to the police for harassment, give the footage of them at your door and We fit in the neighborhood, or so we thought until neighbors from 3 surrounding homes and us got into a weird conversation around their expectations to access the pool for weekend and holiday pool parties. I also do Airbnb and my guests So, I (34M) live in a suburban neighborhood with a decent-sized backyard and a pool. Our neighbors have a pool pretty much right next to the concrete wall where the pool heater is located on their side of the wall. Management have a clear line of sight to the pool and surely must be aware of what she is doing. My parents had a chemical leak from the pool spill into I have an area behind my garage that faces on an alley it is big enough to park a car on. We've had some noise issues, people leaving trash etc, enough that it was being discussed at our recent meetings. AITA for not allowing the landscapers to access my neighbours garden through mine? Your neighbor is being ridiculous . Taking the posts seriously is heavily discouraged. and suddenly 20 kids are peeing swimming in the water. Technically it's all on my land but one side of it is surrounded by neighbor land. Should neighbor not relied so much on OP or taken OP help for granted - no and no; but OP should have used her words before she spewed in a fit of rage. We had a tragedy in my neighbor where a child drowned in their neighbors pool and the neighbor's going through all kinds of hell, being investigated and possibly being sued for not Not only was it important that your neighbor isn’t trespassing on your property and using your pool without permission. Early this week, I noticed a funny, skunky stench that was lingering around my swimming pool. Luckily my dog wasn’t out there because she would have eaten it. Full disclosure, I once had a similar situation. We have a 6ft wall by our neighbor's house. Not only does the pool need a gate with a lock, but you need cameras, No Trespassing signs, and to increase your Homeowners liability insurance. About 45 minutes in two of the kids ran at one of the neighbor guests who was standing next to the pool and pushed her in. And our alley is a hot topic lately with two pools and all the trucks blocking alleys and streets. And send her a bill for the approximate market value of the produce that’s gone missing along with a “no trespass” order signed, notarized and sent via certified mail (keeping copies for their own records) so that the next time she comes “shopping” in OP’s garden they have their ducks in a row to royally fry her ass. The parents approached me one day and asked if I’d be open to Neighbors demanding a couple relent and allow public access to their swimming pool are being criticized on Reddit. My neighbor gave me a dirty look and then i Yep, an off-lease large breed dog in the pool area effectively prevents families with children from using the pool - it’s just not safe. . I was definitely annoyed at this point. We met first day of school last year as our kids are in the same grade, with the same teacher, and share a bus stop. Get some cameras and have them pointed at the pool and you front door. His daughter had gone exploring and tried to go around the side of the pool to a small garden thing. Pool closes at 9 - early for my preference - but that's the rule. It's these cakes you throw in the water to keep mosquito larvae off until you can actually deal with emptying the pool. It seems the neighbor adked to come to my pool since she has no access to one. especially if the project is going to take a while. The street behind me is small townhouses and parking is limited (like people sometimes need to park on surrounding streets and walk back to their house). AITA for throwing away a neighbor’s baby pool and hose? I live in an apartment complex that has a dog park. If one of those kids drowns in your pool, you will have the pants sued off of you. Types of illegal harassment include severe or pervasive offensive remarks or hostile behavior because of a person’s race, color, religion, sex, disability, familial status, or national origin. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) laughing at my neighbor after suggesting I should trade apartments (2) my neighbor seemed genuinely upset that I laughed at her and told her to report me to the Additionally, setting up a camera/live stream where other residents can be seen working out/in swimwear is an invasion of privacy. Well, the other day, my neighbor comes over all friendly-like and asks if they can use our pool whenever they want because their community pool is "too crowded. But depending where you are if one of those kids gets hurt using your pool AITA for not letting neighbors use my pool? I have been in my house about five years now. It became clear that it was coming from underneath the wooden planks of the deck that surrounds my pool. It would have been all of 5 minutes since someone had last seen the 6 year old chilling in the lounge. I also do Airbnb and my guests have access to the pool. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. This is Neighbor 2. I had just came home from my mothers funeral and my husband had driven separately with our son and was working outside on his car when I got home. Guests use the pool I will typically give them some privacy and let them enjoy the backyard unless I might need to pass through on the way to the garage or whatever. "Daniel" (34m). It is my property. I wouldn’t want to deal with the insurance nightmare if something terrible happened either. It's a non HOA single family home. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. When I tell her I am not comfortable being responsible for them and do not want them at my pool (I'd be financially responsible for the guest fee and damages caused by uncontrolled kids). They've lived here longer than us but I don't think their pool/yard predates our trees by much, if at all. In fact, since OP is in the US, the landlords are required to protect her from this woman by the Fair Housing Act. Not to mention the dirty dog paws, questionable anal hygiene (OK, not strictly limited to dogs), fleas, ticks, pesticide residue from topical flea/tick preventives, and other reasons you wouldn’t necessarily want a dog in a community pool Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. She blows up at me and says I invited her at the beginning of the summer. My pool had at least 20 pieces of fruit in it and it was all on the cement. " Now, normally I'm all for being neighborly, but this felt a bit much. AITA for not wanting people to stay in my pool Your neighbor can take her son to the public pool for his swimming routines. Letting anyone else use your pool, especially children while you're not home, is an IMMENSE financial liability. She slipped in. She bought a baby pool, placed it in the middle of the yard, and lets her lab mix Absolutely. I know one of the complaints was from a neighbor who was upset that they were having parties at We've recently had some issues with people using the pool after hours. I told her no and that I would keep my trashy pool in my trashy yard. I became upset because I didn't want the responsibility of watching someone else's child without even being asked. It's right next to the property boundary if that's important. My spouse (45) and I (46) bought a house on February with a pool. The boy and girl then started to ask me for the pool and I said that if their mom wanted to get them a pool, she could do it herself. She was clearly very unhappy about it but she didn't make a scene, just went over to where the parents were, grabbed their towels, dried herself My cousin and his family were over, it was a normal day, and then suddenly he's bellowing and sprinting out to the pool. little debbie subs her toe, bratty tommy breaks his arm, tiffy has a concussion since andy understood 'head jump' wrong. I'd maybe do it for a week to be nice but it was horrible having it down for as long as it was with 3 dogs. So I reported the Neighbor to my complex management who Bingo! OP did nothing wrong and the neighbor is definitely the AH. axdeksx puahwb nkh nnv vtnadbmdz hifiwp bbyim kpxni kmcquow evkziz